How Do I Find Out If Someone Is Married And Have Fun Doing It

Thursday, June 10th, 2010

Your early warning system for dishonest lovers

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Protecting yourself when you enter into a new relationship with someone should be your first and foremost concern. Millions of women and no doubt a few men too, get beaten by their boyfriends and spouses every year. Sadly many of the victims end up dead as a result. By taking steps to find out about someone and at the same time, find out if they are married or not, you can reduce your risk of ending up with someone you would rather have nothing to do with.

How do I find out if someone is married

With a little planning and common sense you can find out if he is married or has a long term partner. You can also find out if he or she is a drug addict, an ex-convict or has active arrest warrants. Above all you can find out if he is lying to you and the best thing about this method is that it can be fun to do.

Find out if he is married by asking him

Men love to talk about themselves and women are very often the same once you get them going. Finding things out about someone at the start of a relationship is one of the nicest things about that time so you should use it to your advantage. You can have a great time doing it too.

What you will be doing by talking is collecting information. Anything might be useful from his date of birth to his mothers maiden name. From his school and college qualifications to his ex girlfriends. Oh and don’t forget to ask him if he’s married or not.

Yes it’s ok to ask your new lover if he is married or has other partners. We live in a time when AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases are of great concern so you should ask this question as soon as possible.

Collect information while you are having a good time

If your new lover is being honest with you then you will get your answer quickly. If on the other hand, you are told that there is definitely no one else then you should continue to collect information from him. You are looking for things that can be verified like date of birth, where he went to school, where he works etc.

You can slip in you questions while talking on the telephone when it’s easy to write down what he tells you. Most men will open up over dinner and a few drinks if given the smallest encouragement. Write down the information as soon as you are alone and before you forget it.

Look for the lies

Now you can start looking for any lies that you may have been told. It doesn’t much matter what the lies are because if he can lie to you about one thing then he can lie to you about being married right?

Call the college where he said he has studied to confirm that he did attend. Call his employer to verify that he does work there. You can call the main number and ask to speak to him. They will tell you if they don’t know him.

Do a background check and search marriage records

There are all sorts of background checking that you can do by consulting an online public records web site. You can even check marriage and divorce records but you don’t have to stop there. Use public records web sites to find out if he has a criminal record or arrest records and much more.

How do I find out if someone is married? I do a marriage records search online as soon as I have enough information to allow me to identify the person from the results I get.

Most of the time I don’t find any evidence of lies or deceit but I almost always enjoy myself by finding out all kinds of stuff about the person that you might not think to ask.

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Author: Steve Gee

How To Tell If Someone Is Lying When They Say They Are Not Married

Wednesday, October 7th, 2009

How do I tell if my boyfriend lies?

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So you have a new boyfriend or girlfriend. Things are going great and you’re thinking of taking your relationship to the next level. You might be thinking of getting a place together or even a bank account because right now you can’t ever see the two of you being parted. He’s asked you to marry him but do you really know him? How do you know that he’s not married already and that he’s just saying things that you want to hear? You need to start listening really carefully because he might just be lying to you.

Most people lie, it’s a fact. Some people lie a little to make life easier for themselves or others while there are other people who lie for a living. I call them politicians but that’s another story. Some people lie because they can’t help it; they are compulsive liars who will lie about anything even when there is no need to tell a lie. Some people are just criminals and lie to con you out of your money or possessions.

It’s very difficult to keep up lies especially when they are complicated made up tales. It’s also very difficult to eliminate all the clues that you and your body give off when you’re telling them but some people are better at it than others and some people have devoted their lives to concealing their true intentions.

If you want to check out his or her story about being married without having to ask or detect whether he’s lying to you then you can do an online background check on him straight away. If you find his marriage records in the public records database then there is a very good chance that you’ve been lied to.

If you are looking for the clues that your boyfriend’s lying to you then it’s often not too difficult to spot them. The trick is to keep him talking about anything and everything and look at the way his behaviour changes when you ask him certain questions. Some things to look out for are:

He breaks eye contact and looks away

He might look up and to the left when telling a lie.

The pitch of his voice changes

This could indicate a change in your suspects stress levels.


Trying to think of the right thing to say can lead to hesitation and a lot of ‘um’ and ‘err’ noises.

He turns his body away from you however slightly

It’s harder to lie to someone when talking straight at them.

Nervous body movements or fidgeting

Can you make your boyfriend squirm with some searching questions that you know he doesn’t want to answer?

More than adequate detail in his descriptions

Does he tell you more than you need to know? This could indicate a degree of preparation in the response to your question.

Speaking more rapidly than usual

People will often talk quickly when telling a lie almost as if they’re trying to get it over and done with as soon as possible.


Sweat can be a giveaway when you know that it isn’t hot and they don’t normally sweat.

Color changes in his face

I’m a lousy liar, you just have to look at my face and if it goes bright red then you know I’m lying. I think that this is true for a lot of other people too.

Learn to spot when someone is lying to you. It could save you time, money and a lot of heartbreak if you know when you are being conned.

So if you think that you are being lied to why not do a background check on them now and see if the story matches with what you find.

Author: Steve Gee

How Do I Find Out If Someone Is Married?

Thursday, September 17th, 2009

How can you find out if your boyfriend is married?

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When you’re in love and thinking seriously about making a commitment and even marriage, the thought of delving into your mans skeleton cupboard to find out if he’s everything you’ve hoped for is probably the last thing on your mind. But how do you know whether he’s already married or not? He might even have a criminal record and not told you about it. You owe it to yourself to do a little background check on him before it’s too late.

If you have mutual friends then talk to them

No one knows a person better than their closest friends so if you happen to know the same people or you know someone who does then go and talk to them. Buy them a few drinks and grill them about your new lover.

Most people will be happy to talk to you about their friends but if they appear to be reluctant to answer your questions then this could mean that they have something they don’t want you to hear. If this is the case then start to get suspicious.

Talk to your new boyfriend

Your new boyfriend has the answers to all your questions so you should ask them, all of them. People love to talk about themselves and will be happy to give you the answers. Unless they have something to hide of course in which case they might seem evasive or inconsistent. If this happens then you should start to worry.

You should always talk to your partner of course but if you don’t have any mutual friends to talk to then it’s so much more important that you do talk to him directly. It’s so simple and yet many people get blinded by romance and forget to do it.

Is he being consistent

Finding out if someone is lying to you can be easier than you think. The trick is that you don’t have to detect every lie that they tell you. You only have to find one lie to throw doubt on everything else that they say. For instance if they tell you that they are 35 years old but you know that they have a 25 year old daughter then they could be lying. If he tells you that he’s an airline pilot but seems to lack knowledge of some airports then this could also be a clue.

If your lover can lie to you about one thing then he can lie to you about anything so beware. At the very least you should do a background check on him before you go any further.

How Do I Find Out If Someone Is Married?

Author: Steve Gee