How To Tell If Someone Is Lying When They Say They Are Not Married

Wednesday, October 7th, 2009

How do I tell if my boyfriend lies?

Check public marriage records online now

So you have a new boyfriend or girlfriend. Things are going great and you’re thinking of taking your relationship to the next level. You might be thinking of getting a place together or even a bank account because right now you can’t ever see the two of you being parted. He’s asked you to marry him but do you really know him? How do you know that he’s not married already and that he’s just saying things that you want to hear? You need to start listening really carefully because he might just be lying to you.

Most people lie, it’s a fact. Some people lie a little to make life easier for themselves or others while there are other people who lie for a living. I call them politicians but that’s another story. Some people lie because they can’t help it; they are compulsive liars who will lie about anything even when there is no need to tell a lie. Some people are just criminals and lie to con you out of your money or possessions.

It’s very difficult to keep up lies especially when they are complicated made up tales. It’s also very difficult to eliminate all the clues that you and your body give off when you’re telling them but some people are better at it than others and some people have devoted their lives to concealing their true intentions.

If you want to check out his or her story about being married without having to ask or detect whether he’s lying to you then you can do an online background check on him straight away. If you find his marriage records in the public records database then there is a very good chance that you’ve been lied to.

If you are looking for the clues that your boyfriend’s lying to you then it’s often not too difficult to spot them. The trick is to keep him talking about anything and everything and look at the way his behaviour changes when you ask him certain questions. Some things to look out for are:

He breaks eye contact and looks away

He might look up and to the left when telling a lie.

The pitch of his voice changes

This could indicate a change in your suspects stress levels.

Hesitation

Trying to think of the right thing to say can lead to hesitation and a lot of ‘um’ and ‘err’ noises.

He turns his body away from you however slightly

It’s harder to lie to someone when talking straight at them.

Nervous body movements or fidgeting

Can you make your boyfriend squirm with some searching questions that you know he doesn’t want to answer?

More than adequate detail in his descriptions

Does he tell you more than you need to know? This could indicate a degree of preparation in the response to your question.

Speaking more rapidly than usual

People will often talk quickly when telling a lie almost as if they’re trying to get it over and done with as soon as possible.

Sweating

Sweat can be a giveaway when you know that it isn’t hot and they don’t normally sweat.

Color changes in his face

I’m a lousy liar, you just have to look at my face and if it goes bright red then you know I’m lying. I think that this is true for a lot of other people too.

Learn to spot when someone is lying to you. It could save you time, money and a lot of heartbreak if you know when you are being conned.

So if you think that you are being lied to why not do a background check on them now and see if the story matches with what you find.

Author: Steve Gee

Find Out If Hes Married Using A Reverse Telephone Number Search

Monday, September 21st, 2009

Reverse telephone lookup is a quick and easy way to check if he’s married

Do a reverse phone lookup now

Did you know that you can find out if someone is married from their phone number by doing a reverse telephone lookup? It sounds too easy but it’s true. Let me show you how easy it is to harness the power of the Internet to check out your boyfriend and make sure that he isn’t lying to you.

The ever expanding Internet

Over the last few short years the Internet has been expanding at a phenomenal rate. Every day millions of new pages packed full of information are built and made available to you. It’s like having your own global library and super database in your own living room.

Everything you want to know is there if you know where to look

If you know where to look you can find practically anything you want by browsing and searching the net and this includes publicly available information on people. A brand new industry has recently been born that is dedicated to gathering all manner of publicly available information from many databases scattered across the net.

Using online public records databases

When you check out one of these reverse telephone lookup websites you’ll find that they can do a lot more for you than just tell you who owns a telephone number. You’ll be able to find out if he’s got a criminal record, find out if he’s married and do all kinds of background checks on him.

Find out if he’s married as soon as you meet him with a reverse phone search

A telephone number is one of the first pieces of information that you get from someone you’ve just met. From the telephone number you can get his name and address and find out if he’s married. You can do all of this and more confidentially from the comfort of your own home and the best part is that you can do it virtually as soon as you meet your new boyfriend.

If you do a reverse telephone lookup quickly and find out that he’s married before you have a chance to get serious then you’re much less likely to get hurt than if you have to walk away later. Do it now and save yourself a lot of grief.

Author: Steve Gee

How To Find Out If Someone Is Married

Monday, September 21st, 2009

Use the same databases that the law enforcement agencies use

Check marriage records to find out if someone is married

Finding the right partner nowadays is a difficult enough task at the best of times but how do you know that your new love is being honest with you? Whether you just met or you’ve known him or her for years they could have skeletons in their cupboard that they don’t want to you to know about. Some of these skeletons could be very important to you so it’s worth doing a little digging. For instance, make sure that you know how to find out if someone is married.

Ask them if they are married

The obvious first step is to simply ask them whether they are married or have been in the past. If they are honest they will tell you the truth and the skeletons can be left behind. But how do you know that they are being honest with you?

Pay careful attention to what they say and look for discrepancies. It’s very difficult to keep up a complicated lie and mistakes can easily creep into the story. Do the dates in his story make sense? Does he go away on mysterious business trips etc? You only need to find one thing that you absolutely know is a lie to cast a cloak of doubt on everything else they’ve told you. If this happens then confront them immediately and walk away if you don’t get a satisfactory reply.

Do some undercover work

If you have an idea where someone might have been married then you can write to the local offices in that area and ask for marriage records. But what if you don’t know where they came from? Even if you do there’s no guarantee that that’s where they got married so how do you find out if someone is married when you don’t have any idea where they might have done it?

Find out if someone is married the easy way

Until very recently the means to search for information such as whether you are married or not was reserved solely for the law enforcement agencies. Through the power of the Internet these same databases are now available to everyone and made easily accessible through very affordable software. Not only can you find out whether they are married but whether they have a criminal record or have been arrested, when and where they were born, whether they have been declared bankrupt and many, many other background checks. A small investment to gain access to all this information can save you from making a big mistake.

Do your own background investigations using public records and public marriage records

Author: Steve Gee

How Do I Find Out If Someone Is Married?

Thursday, September 17th, 2009

How can you find out if your boyfriend is married?

Search marriage records now

When you’re in love and thinking seriously about making a commitment and even marriage, the thought of delving into your mans skeleton cupboard to find out if he’s everything you’ve hoped for is probably the last thing on your mind. But how do you know whether he’s already married or not? He might even have a criminal record and not told you about it. You owe it to yourself to do a little background check on him before it’s too late.

If you have mutual friends then talk to them

No one knows a person better than their closest friends so if you happen to know the same people or you know someone who does then go and talk to them. Buy them a few drinks and grill them about your new lover.

Most people will be happy to talk to you about their friends but if they appear to be reluctant to answer your questions then this could mean that they have something they don’t want you to hear. If this is the case then start to get suspicious.

Talk to your new boyfriend

Your new boyfriend has the answers to all your questions so you should ask them, all of them. People love to talk about themselves and will be happy to give you the answers. Unless they have something to hide of course in which case they might seem evasive or inconsistent. If this happens then you should start to worry.

You should always talk to your partner of course but if you don’t have any mutual friends to talk to then it’s so much more important that you do talk to him directly. It’s so simple and yet many people get blinded by romance and forget to do it.

Is he being consistent

Finding out if someone is lying to you can be easier than you think. The trick is that you don’t have to detect every lie that they tell you. You only have to find one lie to throw doubt on everything else that they say. For instance if they tell you that they are 35 years old but you know that they have a 25 year old daughter then they could be lying. If he tells you that he’s an airline pilot but seems to lack knowledge of some airports then this could also be a clue.

If your lover can lie to you about one thing then he can lie to you about anything so beware. At the very least you should do a background check on him before you go any further.

How Do I Find Out If Someone Is Married?

Author: Steve Gee